JOURNAL #57- 04/01/2003, 22:09
"Back for Another Night of Thoughts"
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Yeah im back, ill maybe explain that later if i have time.
What i need to talk about is my possible future meeting with a certain
chick. Points to remember:
1. DON'T TRUST HER...the number one rule always and is this time as well.
2. IF MY INTEREST LEVEL IS BELOW 50% DEFINITELY SAY NO...i may realize
that my interest level is below 50% the instant that i meet her. if that
the case then just try to get out of it, TURN HER DOWN! Now here's something
which I need to be rehearsing in my head! :) Figure out a way to turn her
don in the quickest possible way without being an asshole. That will have
to be determined based onthe setting of the date.
3. DON'T SPILL YOUR STORY QUICKLY, wait until it seems like a lay is guaranteed.
4. CHECK TO MAKE SURE SHE DOESN'T TAKE ADVANTAGE OF YOUR MONEY. The instant
she's eyeing your cash, you plan your fuckin' exit. Maybe mention something
like, "i can't afford a girlfriend"
5. YOU DON'T NEED TO TELL HER TOO MUCH ABOUT YOUR PERSONAL LIFE, just
the stuff which will make this experience occur the way that I would like
for it to occur.
6. BOY WILL IT BE GREAT AFTERWARDS WHEN I DUMP HER AFTERWARDS :) ... Now
this is only the case that she tries to continue this.
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QUICK ASIDE NOTE:
Props to me on starting a conversation with that chick Erica today. Getting
the name- great fuckin' work. That all I need to do...ive done it before
i can do it again. What was great, though, was how I gave myself a goal immediately
beforehand, then did exactly that. I didnt worry about anything further.
The moral here is: the instant that you make the first interest level judgement
you should decide exactly how far you're willing to take it.
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7. MAKE SURE SHE KNOWS THAT YOURE A BUSY PERSON...that way you have an
excuse for later to not see her if you dont want.
8. ON THE OTHERHAND, IF SHE IS EVERYTHING I AM LOOKING FOR...STILL DON'T
TRUST HER! But you should remain confident at all times. If she understands
your situation and is interested, thatn enjoy it all, remember your purpose,
and dont look back!
9. IF ALL IS GOING WELL, try to meantion that you like to "savor things
and enjoy them slowly" :) It is true.
Possible ideas to send in message along with the access: Tell her that
after reading her profile you felt thatshe was the perfect person who can
help me out with something. But tell also tell her that first she shood look
at your pictures and if shes interested then to get back to you through email
(leave address) or through message service.
Anyways i gotsta get ready to crash
Latez